5 Mistakes to Avoid on your Honeymoon
1. Zero Consultation When Planning
When planning your honeymoon, trying too hard to go grand with the surprise element can backfire. When you take matters in your hands in an attempt to sweep your wife off her feet, there is always a risk that the result may not be what you anticipated. This is because solo planning can lead to a trip that’s more inclined to your interests and surprises that don't really really appeal to her interests and desires. The safest approach is to plan all the big stuff together so that you can both enjoy. Going on a honeymoon is supposed to be an unforgettable experience to both partners for positive reasons, which is why planning as a team matters.
2. Following Other People’s Trails
How often have you wished to visit a place just because a someone you know went there? The illusion created by social media posts tempts people to want to try what others are doing. This is despite the fact that it does not necessarily follow that what your pals loved will excite you as well. While your friends may have had a blast during their honeymoon in the snow filled Himalayan Mountains, you or your partner may not adjust well to the weather, making your promising trip a non-event. Seek advice from like-minded acquaintances, but tailor your trip to your liking.
3. The Classic Lockup
Couples on honeymoon are madly in love and cannot get enough of each other, however, staying locked up in your hotel room means you miss out on creating lots of other memories. Wherever you go with the love of your life on honeymoon, take some time out to tour together. Move out of your room and get to know the place, its culture, shopping districts, eateries, and click some pictures while you are at it. In short, do everything you can to can your trip rich instead of just a hotel experience.
4. Giving-in to Extravagant Indulgences
In the lure of impressing your spouse, you run the risk of taking impulsive decisions. Many make the mistake of indulging in exotic activities leading to excessive spending. It is important to realize that at the end of the day, a honeymoon is just a phase in your married life as you have a long way to go, with a whole future together. Breaking your savings for a few days of “fun” isn’t the ideal way to start a new life. It is, therefore, essential to be realistic with your budget and desires.
5. Forgetting the Little Things
Sexy lingerie, sex toys, and lubes are some of the adult accessories that may not seem important when packing for your honeymoon but make a whole lot of difference during lovemaking when you suddenly realize how invaluable they are for all the fun and games. You need sensuality, desire, and intensity in the bed, something which doesn't come easy for most couples getting busy for the first time. Adult products help calm the nerves, heighten the feelings, eliminate pain, make for erotic play, steamy foreplay, and explosive sex. All the little things matter, such as sexy lingerie and you can always rely on a massager or vibrator for multiple orgasms.