Despite all the endless talks about women's empowerment and freedom of expression, it is a cold, hard truth that most women are conscious when asking their partner for something risqué or kinky. The reason is obvious: we live in a hypocritical society that talks about women's liberation on one hand and, on the other, raises brows on women who openly talk about their carnal desires. However, without getting into the argument of the inexplicable hypocrisy prevalent in Indian society, let’s focus on what women actually want from their men but are too shy to admit. Take a look.

1. Tickle the Back-door

She may not be able to say it directly, but most women want their man to finger them or use a massager in their bum. There may be more than one reasons why she is shy about ask you to do it. For instance, she may be scared that you may be repulsed by or grossed out by the idea. Similarly, she might be too scared to get hurt if she lets you do it, as the anal area is tight and highly sensitive. To find out, if your girl wants you to do it, ask her questions such as, “Do you mind if I touch your anus?” or “Do you want to try anal sex?” If she shows some interest, don’t just start poking her. This way, you might put her off guard and may lose the chance of convincing her to do anal anytime soon.

2. Try a Roleplay

Probably your girl wants to wear cute little outfits or roleplay costumes and fulfill some of her sexual fantasies that she always dreamed of doing with you. For example, she might want you to pretend to be the sexy stranger who she meets on a bus or train, with whom she has no-strings-attached sex, or she may like the idea of dressing up as the naughty schoolgirl who wouldn’t start behaving until her teacher (you would be playing that role) gave her a nice little spanking she craves. To ensure your girl is not shy about asking you for a roleplay, you need to talk to her about your sexual desires first and then encourage her to share her desires with you. One quick word of caution: Remember, no matter how erotic her fantasy is, you must simply take it as a fantasy and not start judging her for it.

3. Go Down on Her

Women like their man to arouse them down there with the power of his tongue. While they may be a bit hesitant to share this with him, this is something that most women admit to when asked whether or not they would want their partner to perform oral sex. In fact, women not only like to get pleased, but they also love to arouse their men. A lot of women, when asked about their preference for giving their partner a blow job, mentioned that they would love to do it if their partner knew where to draw the line and cared for their sexual preferences too. For example, if their man kept himself clean and hygienic, they would love to do something like that. In fact, these days a lot of men care a lot more for their partner and this is one of the reasons why they not only keep themselves clean down there, but they also go one step further and use things such as flavored condoms to make their girl feel more comfortable.

4. Call to Her Naughty Side

You might think this is strange, as the last time you abused someone while driving on the road, she raised her eyebrow at you, giving you a hint not to repeat it in the future. Women, however, like their man to abuse them while they make love. They like to be called names such as slut, bitch, whore, and so on. You, however, need to proceed with extra caution when you call her names in bed. If your partner is young, around 18 years of age, or in her early twenties, you may not want to abuse her while having sex, unless you are very sure that she likes it. The reason is that young women usually have a stigma associated with abusive words. Similarly, it may be very upsetting for women with dark memories from their childhood to be abused by their partners. Therefore, you should use tricks, such as telling her how naughty her behavior is, instead. If you think she reacts playfully and takes it positively, you must go on to slowly and steadily introduce her to other words that make her feel kinky.

Last Few Words

Relationships thrive when two people are able to communicate with each other better. Couples need to talk to each other openly about their sexual desires, and help each other drop their inhibitions to enjoy a better sex life. So, if it’s been awhile since you had a passionate night with your partner, talk to her about her fantasies, try something unusual, such as luxury condoms, or gift her sensual products, such as lingerie sets, romance kits, bedroom board games, discrete women’s massagers, etc. To help, It’sPleaZure.com lets you choose from a wide range of adult products. You can also call and speak to one of our representatives if you wish to know more about any of our products. You can email us at support@itspleazure.com and we’ll be happy to help.